Are You Complaining.....???

For Your Success...!


"Give Up
Complaining
To Taste
Success" -AA


The best and easiest way most of us do during failures or when things don't go our way is to either blame others or events or just anything, just to satisfy and justify yourself that its not because of you.

Stop now give it up blaming others/events/anything for the failures you experience in life. The extent to which you can achieve your dreams solely counts on to the extent you choose to take your responsibility to take Total Control of your life. You see when you choose to blame others/ events or anything for what you are undergoing in your life or where you are now! By doing this you complete or partly quit your responsibilities. Hence you give others, events or anything (you blame at) power over that sequence of your life.

Now lets peep little deep on complaining. If you are complaining about something or some one, You first need to believe that there something better is in existence. You need to have a point of reference of something or some one you prefer that you are not ready to hold responsibility for creating it.

Lets go little further into this, You will not be able to find a reason to complain if you don't believe that something better option exist Example - Bigger house, More happiness n fun, More satisfied Job/ Business, More money, More loving spouse - , These are the vision in your thoughts of something better and you know you would like to have it, but to create it in your life you don't want to take the risk.

You will find around yourself people complain about things which they believe something better can be done about it, vice versa you will not find people complaining about things they believe they don't have power over. Have you ever heard people complaining about Day/Night or Gravity...?
Of course never...!!

If Day/Night didn't have existed then we would have ended up in whole time in sunlight making it uncomfortable to take rest or whole time in darkness make life more difficult to do day to day things.
As same gravity wouldn't have existed we wouldn't have fallen down the stairs, Planes would have not fall out of sky, We would not broken any utensils, But you will fail to find people complaining about it, because its a fact that it dose exist, they cannot do anything to change it hence they accept it. As we know very well complaining about it will not help us, so we choose to use it for our advantage.

In day we work, use sunlight for power generation, explore the beauty of nature where as we choose night to relax and give rest to body so we can start the day with full of energy. Similarly we build aqueducts down mountain sides to carry water for us, and drain to take away our wastages.

The event most of like to complain about one by their very nature, which you can change to take Total control of your life, but you haven't chosen to do so...

       You can make more money
                                Live in much bigger and luxurious house
  Drive a bigger car
Find a better job
    Eat healthier foods
       Give up bad habits   


All You Need To Do Is Change Yourself To See The Change You Desire -AA


Quit and find a better job
Trust your own gut feelings
Ask for help
Say No in the face of peer pressure
Go back to school to pursue your dreams
Reach out to help
Accept the truth
Take time for self development


Why don't we choose to do those things, But instead we say no to take risks.

We fear to stand the risk of

Being unemployed
Left high and dry
What would others think or say about us
Being wrong
Disapproval by parents
Disapproval by Neighbours
Disapproval by friends
Disapproval by spouse

To change involves time, efforts and money, Initially it will be tough, difficult, uncomfortable or confusing. Hence we choose to be safe feel by avoiding risks in life and thus blaming others for our uncomfortable life.

As stated before we choose to complain when you have a point of reference i.e something better which you could be, but avoid to take the risk (courage) required to creating it. Simple you accept that you are the one making the choice to stay where you are, take Total Control (responsibility) of your choice you make and just -

- Stop Complaining....!!!
- Or just take the required risk(courage) of building your life as it was meant to be.


If you really do want to get and create anything you want in your life and Live Your Dreams...!! --- Folks you got to take the risk required, Kill those fear of failures.

Now Go out there face it and live your dreams....!!!

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